Send a message to the person who requested a photo of the grave monument of Sydney James Baker with the following comment:
I am their daughter. I live in British Columbia so have never seen the headstone with my Mum's name added. I appreciate what you are doing for us but at this time, am not in a position to help. However, if you could let me know what, if anything someone at a distance could do to help, I probably will be able to volunteer.